nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnddaehgu3wwp6kyqpqzzqsydlcf22pp5nhr25tewc98awe0kugaykt7zgh4t62uqmux4qq8z87h8 (nprofile…87h8) It's a good thing to live here and now, but some topics need a bit of "history".
Selfish as humans are, i built this idea up by looking at myself, and am currently deploying it towards others. You see, i am not perfect, and generally speaking, some of the bullying that was done to me in school rubbed off on me. I have some memories of being mean to others for no good reason, and with time i stopped that crap and became pretty different from how i was for many years.
Looking at others, even some of the trolls i experienced here, i often find some shit that happened to people and needs to be adressed before they can even start finding out how they want to be. Generational trauma was not what happened to me, personally, but it seems a big part of what is generally going on. Aside from that, well bullying is a common thing to happen.
So while it is reasonable to be disappointed by people at large, there is more to it than just "people bad". Ofc, in urgent situations, that can't prevent the harm that is done, but it does a lot to let me not hate people.
This with the conviction that pushing people never helped and the only way out is kindness. Stop agressors, sure, but don't put them in the evil box and act like it was all their personal fault.
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2025-03-28 08:55:12
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