Instead of a failure list, I should keep a "missed opportunities due to systemic oppression" list, where I keep track of all the things I didn't do because I didn't trust that I would be safe if I did.
[This insight brought to you by a 10 day trip that I just said no to because the organizer's response around "have you thought about non-binary inclusion" was...patronizing and embarrassing, giving me no confidence that I could participate and not get misgendered the entire time.]
Kendra Albert /
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