She's 24. Yeah so weird. I've completely mourned her and yet am open to reconciling with her. She was bringing out all the hits--DARVO, triangulating with me and Rube Jr. She also opened with "I've been so worried about you" ??? and very quickly segued into "Do you still have x valuables I abandoned here several years ago?"
Wild swings and tears. Anytime she was insulting I deflected or agreed with her, I had no rise to give. She said something about how none of my children talk to me and how that's a reflection on me. I was like ??? I just saw Rube Jr for dinner Wednesday... In response she told me I've always been a bad liar! I told her we walk a lake here on Sunday mornings and she'd be welcome to join. Immediately called Rube Jr after and gave her the download and among other reactions she said "I'd love if she walked with us."
Every time she's reached out wanting something I've responded with the idea that I'm open to speaking and getting to know her again, reconciling, and she always dips. Last night she let me know how uncaring I am for never reaching out to her. I suggested we have coffee, wine, lunch? She got upset and said "I don't drink!" I told her, "How would I know that? I don't know what you do anymore." It surprised her I think, which seemed childlike.
I am very open to the idea that seeing me was super triggering and she wasn't at her best last night, but the behaviors and words seemed very cluster b. Strange Friday evening.
She tried to break into my house in 2017 but just messed up my French doors a little. I'm not worried and I don't think she's dangerous. Glad Rube Jr was able to pick up her phone after her visit.
I woke up and it really clicked that I've had trouble with certain members of my family because I have VERY strong personal boundaries. And high expectations, but reasonable ones (like go to class and do your homework for the girls).
Anyway, Caff, thanks in advance for letting me lob this download at ya. 😑 A lot of people in my life I know more casually think I have only one kid. It's weird.
Rube Snakehole: Crochet ACTIVIST 🗡️🦀 /
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2025-04-05 16:34:10
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