katie on Nostr: I’ll admit, I’m not familiar with the Three Six Men standard, so maybe I’ll ...

I’ll admit, I’m not familiar with the Three Six Men standard, so maybe I’ll have to educate myself on what’s being said 😅 but I agree that the standards and expectations must evolve. I don’t think the answer is lowering them, but redefining them and listening to each other. Now… I want to preface that with the idea that I’m not sure matching is the end all be all goal for everyone. I don’t think marriage is virtuous for the sake of marriage, personally. And being single as a choice is perfectly valid, IMO. But of those wanting to be “matched”, I think it’s important to be willing to understand that people are human and growth/change and grace is part of any human-human relationship. I also don’t think anyone is entitled to a match. And I think that sense entitlement is what breeds resentment and honestly just gets in the way of actual human connection.