Hi Colin, I prefer open coms.
Your relays jumping around is probably because you are jumping clients. I haven't seen this issue with relays only followers previously.
I would recommend using your nsec in only one client. Damus and Fountain have my nsec that's it. Everyone else I use my npub. Its read only but you can see how different clients work with you without exposing your nsec.
I have a history.Something relay which may help your situation, check out my relay list
WedgeSocial / Dan Wedge
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2024-09-06 17:40:05
in reply to nevent1q…69t3
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