AndreyBelyakov on Nostr: I have first read about importance of social circle in forming one's personality and ...

I have first read about importance of social circle in forming one's personality and reality in self-help books as a teenager — and even without reading understood it just by looking around.

Yet I have excluded the last two toxic, radioactive people from my own social circle only 9 months ago — less than a year!

Why so late?

As I understand now, it seems that I used to have major problem with co-dependence (and probably still do to an extent) and also was used to and, honestly, addicted to frustration and arguing.

But accumulation of positive factors (better sleep, eating, intellectual diet, management of resources in all forms) caused me to at last break it off with my last two radioactive acquaintances.

As title of one of the manuscripts I'm working on right now says «Everything influences everything».