Sarah on Nostr: Most of the time it's not you, it's a them problem. I dealt with this for most of my ...
Most of the time it's not you, it's a them problem. I dealt with this for most of my life, especially during and after high school.
When I was working with my husband at Lowe's, that's how we met. We was just co workers at the time. I was talking to this guy. Had date plans set up and every thing. That night I was getting ready for the date, he calls me up to cancel the date, he found another woman, basically straight up rejecting. This nearly drove me over the edge. It was a culmination of continuous rejections. I seriously thought something was wrong with me. I won't go into into the what I tried to do afterwards.
I understand it. People are awful and there's not much you can do about it.
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