>In other words, you might say women lack agency, and may or may not have integrity, but a woman in a moment of self-reflection would say, and would indicate, that women have agency, but lack integrity.
I really don't think it's a conscious thing. Women don't feel about you the way you feel about them, because they've evolved not to as a coping mechanism. Historically, they're part of the spoils of war. When a tribe was conquered, some men were kept as slave labour, most killed. The women were carried off as booty by the victors. That mean's the man on top of her later that night, is the same man she watched kill her father & brothers in the morning. That's why they've a totally different psychology.
Men are the romantics of the sexes. Man built the Taj Mahal for the woman he loved, Helen of Troy's face launched a thousand ships out to war. Everything- or at least most- a man does in life, whether it's get a degree to get on the ladder to become an executive, become a tech bro or start a business, ultimately he's doing it to win the affections of the woman who will bare his children.
Once you understand it in it's proper context, it's easier to not resent them for something that's not really their fault.
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