I think curiosity helps a lot. If I am curious why someone acted a certain way I am not resenting them. If I feel a certainty that about the other persons thinking and motives I can conclude they acted maliciously and resent them for it.
Curiosity and grit are 2 of the really big meta skills I focus on with my kids.
Bill Cypher /
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2025-03-11 16:03:18
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