tekne on Nostr: I completely agree. I think the default for messaging / social media should be ...

I completely agree. I think the default for messaging / social media should be private. People should have to go out of their way to boost their signal beyond their normal social circle.

I think these protocols should really mirror much more closely how real life works. We already know what works IRL, let’s use that as a starting point and go from there.

Something really unnatural about how public social media works by default.

I wonder if something like Keet messenger would interest you as well (along with signal, matrix)

Btw, it’s been a decade and I still don’t know why matrix is better than xmpp. If anything, we have just learned that xmpp “failed” for reasons totally unrelated to technology or protocol