But you know what: FLINTA* only excludes cis dudes if you enforce it the way I outlined. If you'd actually be inclusive of all FLINTA* people – you'd have no way to reject cis dudes, too. So it's either reject your own community or accept some cis dudes. Good news: Most of them won't turn up at a queer-feminist space anyway. Those who do are often less transphobic than literally some of the people hosting FLINTA* spaces. What a fucking sad statement.
Finally, with policy based on behavior you can reject JKR, Buck Angel, Blaire White, etc., without causing a hassle. They'd probably stay away even out of their own volition.
Hell, honestly, as much as I find many gay cis dudes annoying too, I understand that they host their own thing and don't really want to have to do anything with our FLINTA* community. If I didn't depend on the community, I'd do the same.
4/4
Leonard/Janis Robert König /
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2024-11-27 09:33:45
in reply to nevent1q…2zp0
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