Johnny Peligro (npub12ha…w5tw) Griffith (npub1t4s…ud4h) Springtime for Zeon (Woggy Mk II) (npub1lnz…k8dk) that signals that one of the following has occurred
1) there was never a mutual understanding of what marriage is and how it works
2) sufficient care and attention was not shown to conserving the marriage
3) you were lied to and she went along with it all despite not believing in any of it
the first two things are within your control and thus should never be a reason to end a marriage. the third can be mitigated somewhat through proper selection, but is otherwise out of your control. sometimes terrible things happen, and you should mitigate them as best you can, but it's like being hit by lightning or an animal attack - sometimes you're in the wrong place at the wrong time.
i know it probably sounds like i'm dodging the question, but i'm trying to impart the seriousness and rarity of such an occurrence. it is not something you should think of as a "backup plan" it's something that is a tragedy when it occurs. i see too many people take divorce too lightly, as though it's just "something that happens sometimes" when more often than not it was preventable and the result of negligence at various parts of the process.
binkle /
npub1kd…d2hnf
2023-12-18 20:49:01
in reply to nevent1q…yce4
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wss://relay.noswhere.comPublished at
2023-12-18 20:49:01Event JSON
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