Try enabling automatic mode and assigning high priority to the relays you want to use. Let's see if that helps with the spam.
Regarding adding users, for now you need to know their npub or hex ID, that's why it's not working what you're trying to do.
lapulpeta /
npub14u…2g0sq
2023-03-04 22:02:09
in reply to nevent1q…dwl8
Author Public Key
npub14uc57wfq2zd0g3qh5lpvkq2svvkjl9fruzyxnz9zh95ev2japw7ql2g0sqPublished at
2023-03-04 22:02:09Event JSON
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"pubkey": "af314f3920509af44417a7c2cb0150632d2f9523e0886988a2b969962a5d0bbc",
"created_at": 1677967329,
"kind": 1,
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"wss://relay.snort.social",
"root"
],
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],
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]
],
"content": "Try enabling automatic mode and assigning high priority to the relays you want to use. Let's see if that helps with the spam.\nRegarding adding users, for now you need to know their npub or hex ID, that's why it's not working what you're trying to do.",
"sig": "eda606b444a94a7a391ad3ae6cdd52a2bdd47cff7cad85805123d6e84d76daa7f2caafbf94c7573cc073c85a3e9a5bcdc535c2274de84de9d32b0325d9f9ebea"
}