You'll also notice that there were hundreds of Spanish men at the celebration... but only he did that.
This is not Spanish culture, or "men" culture.
Unfortunately, what is part of "men culture," is justifying, or downplaying, or minimizing how inappropriate this is. Our collective downplaying creates the conditions where abusive people can do stuff like this. Our inability to recognize abuses of situational power create the conditions for harm.
mekka okereke :verified: /
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2023-08-21 14:46:14
in reply to nevent1q…k8aw
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2023-08-21 14:46:14Event JSON
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