npub1hzfjfqqjy7szqpusq8dggnagev80r874d44pw7nlvy22vdcg8qzqpr8nrj (npub1hzf…8nrj) I can relate. I increasingly celebrate my father's death a few years ago. He was an absolute narcissist and monster besides, and he was one of the big reasons it took me until I was 45 to start my transition. I don't believe in heaven or hell either, but he deserved to go to the later.
We have no obligation to family who don't act like family. I say the ONLY reason to call or see him is because you think it'll give you closure. Otherwise hon? F him. 🤷♀️