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2024-10-17 17:19:30
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Ov1, a Taoist Bitcoiner on Nostr: Having children with an American woman was the biggest and one of the only traps in ...

Having children with an American woman was the biggest and one of the only traps in life in the US that I fell into. The Nanny-State has been weaponized against productive men, using our children as hostages extorting wealth in order to get to interact with the children often only 4 days per month. The family courts and child "protective" services actively incentivize division of the family. This has not only been done to me, but to many of my peers that have even worse horror stories.

I've found much greater fulfillment by embracing my own life purpose, devoting my time to creating impact with my own actions. Rather than living vicariously through my children, hoping they make useful contributions to the world. I believe we are born to do more than merely procreate and live in comfort for as long as possible.

The MGTOW, Men Going Their Own Way, movement has great wisdom for men to learn from. The patron saint of the movement is Nicholai Tesla, who, in large part because he never married or had kids, arguably contributed more to upgrading the quality of life of all humanity more than any other human in history.

The women in the US have been so damaged by the cultural programming that the MGTOW movement, choosing not to seek validation from society or from women, is a natural and wise response to current conditions. It has suggested that IF a productive man wants to have children, he's better off going to a 3rd world country and paying a woman there a flat rate, say $50k, to carry his child and to forfeit all rights to raising the child. Freeing him to bring it back to the US and not have her take advantage of the State apparatus to control his and the child's life.

There are plenty of children already that need the solutions and knowledge of how to live a sustainably sovereign life. By focusing on building real solutions, open-sourcing those protocols, and producing valuable work that serves ALL, rather than just our nuclear families, we can cultivate a network of self-sovereign peers. Creating true security by following Bill Mollison's advice that only by looking our windows and seeing our food growing and our friends working can we create a sustainably secure future. This is how we create the future, as Bucky Fuller suggested, by designing and building it, cultivating a Livingry Services Industry that counters the current weaponry services industry controlled by the military industrial complex.

The wise, long-term, large-scale thinkers go beyond concerns for nuclear families. Instead, cultivating and curating, in Bucky's words "a human-life supporting, environment controlling" industry that creates and empowers our peers. ONLY then may humanity raise itself out of the mud we're currently mired in, to blossom into a lotus flower allowing humanity to realize its full potential.
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