Ben Wehrman on Nostr: I've been blessed with a lot of "bro time" over the last several months, and one ...
I've been blessed with a lot of "bro time" over the last several months, and one question that always pops up is how the dating game is going, specifically what guys are looking for in their future wife.
Don't shoot the messenger for passing what I've learned along, to help you lovely folks who've chosen to follow me make the best-informed decisions possible:
By a significant margin, the most rapidly-growing criteria I'm hearing from high-quality men is NO TATTOOS.
Even men with tattoos want women with none, as aside from looking aesthetically trashy, they signify hard life experience (masculine), low impulse-control, bad relationship with father/ex-boyfriends, and lack of care about health/hormones.
(Note that while these things are very important for men looking for a wife/mother of their kids, they are NOT important for men looking for hookups. So, if you're tatted, understand that the percentage of attention you receive from men just wanting to hookup will increase)
If you are a woman with no tattoos or plastic surgery done, give yourself a HUGE pat on the back for dodging these bullets that have tricked so many, and carry yourself with extra confidence knowing that in a hyper-fake world, your natural skin alone puts you in the top 1% in the eyes of the highest-quality men on earth.
https://www.benwehrman.com/tattoo/Published at
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