mleku on Nostr: yeah, DMs are the case that makes having a rendezvous relay proxying function make ...
yeah, DMs are the case that makes having a rendezvous relay proxying function make sense. at most the relay only sees traffic volumes and who connects to who, the content is encrypted. without much more elaborate than that you could use tor to set up accounts on several intermediary relays and voila, you don't even need tor to isolate who's talking to who, just two intermediaries and basta.
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