Anita Lewis on Nostr: I'm right with you on the wardrobe. I kid you not. But I thought of something else ...

I'm right with you on the wardrobe. I kid you not. But I thought of something else that has helped me. I forget the source.

We say "I have to do the laundry."

I've learned the different feel, especially as I grow older, of saying instead "I am able to do the laundry."

That puts it into the from of the action rather than the result and also into a sense of gratitude rather than obligation.