A chaotic bisexual ADHDisaster’s guide to healthy flirting online:
1) the most important thing first and foremost is to approach the other person like they are a full person with their own desires, agency, preferences, feelings, etc. While you might find them attractive, they may not feel the same towards you and that’s okay. Make sure whatever you say or do to flirt allows for them to set a boundary there or not reciprocate without it being a big deal.
2) first step is to approach in a way that invites them to have plausible deniability to deflect or not engage, or invite more attention. A comment that is suggestive but allows an easy out. For example, “that dress looks amazing on you! A person can’t help but imagine how the legs go all the way up.🫠” allows the person to reply “thanks! I got the dress from blank!” Or “I bet you wish you could know how far those legs go 😉”
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#Queer #Bisexual #Flirting
Joscelyn Transpiring /
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2024-08-30 01:06:49
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2024-08-30 01:06:49Event JSON
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