mleku on Nostr: no, there isn't, because there is a dominant philosophy among the majority of relay ...

no, there isn't, because there is a dominant philosophy among the majority of relay and client devs that "once it's out, it's out" but my relay honors deletes and it refuses to store them again if they are sent to store again (by using tombstones)

these obtuse, unfeeling, thick western minded people don't understand simple things like etiquette, because they are used to living in societies where people just blunder into each other and they think that's normal, but in asia, and among the more discerning, this is extremely dumb and retarded thinking, and this is all very unhelpful for adoption of a very large (the majority, if we are being precise) part of the population of the human race