I have been trying out a new rule of three when it comes to receiving feedback. I required myself to read the feedback at least three times before doing anything in response.
I see an early pattern emerging from practicing this rule. Instead of sparking a needless conflict over a comment that isn't even wrong, I start with curiosity about my own understanding of the topic at hand.
cmdln /
npub13s…966n8
2024-06-18 15:41:42
Author Public Key
npub13sfc5u0k3auwhcgynersx0yteuaqkfcyykzwm7hnjlpjg29h6ktsa966n8Published at
2024-06-18 15:41:42Event JSON
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"pubkey": "8c138a71f68f78ebe1049e47033c8bcf3a0b27042584edfaf397c32428b7d597",
"created_at": 1718725302,
"kind": 1,
"tags": [
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"proxy",
"https://thecommandline.social/@cmdln/112638381405856390",
"web"
],
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"proxy",
"https://thecommandline.social/users/cmdln/statuses/112638381405856390",
"activitypub"
],
[
"L",
"pink.momostr"
],
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"l",
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"pink.momostr"
]
],
"content": "I have been trying out a new rule of three when it comes to receiving feedback. I required myself to read the feedback at least three times before doing anything in response.\n\nI see an early pattern emerging from practicing this rule. Instead of sparking a needless conflict over a comment that isn't even wrong, I start with curiosity about my own understanding of the topic at hand.",
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}