Being Better on Nostr: What kind of posts can I earn zaps for on here? After a while of being on Nostr ...

What kind of posts can I earn zaps for on here? After a while of being on Nostr everyone stopped zapping me. Am I supposed to give zapps to others and trade them, how does this all work? Nostriches, please weigh in. Maybe someone who works on this site could improve it, there are a lot of complaints I have about this platform. Call me old, but I find it difficult to navigate, and impossible to chat with people. No shade, just understand I struggle with a lot of internet and social media things, it could be me. Could my followers please weigh in? Only thing I will not post is sexy pics: I'm a happily married woman. I specialize in mental health topics, but have many interests I could post about.