You can let people know the group without letting people know specifics. You can give people guidance on which questions to ask. You can give people a category of problem that you are talking about.
This whole "THERE'S SOMEONE OUT THERE WHO MIGHT (or might not) HURT YOU AND I KNOW DETAILS BUT I WON'T SHARE THEM" is entirely too common and it is actively harmful.
It also encourages "vibe checks," which I have strong negative opinions about.
What are they supposed to be looking for?
Hrefna (DHC) /
npub1sq…agk0y
2024-05-26 19:48:34
in reply to nevent1q…u8f4
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2024-05-26 19:48:34Event JSON
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