The only way to erase what seems to be a problem repeating itself in every generation is to have a strong will and get as much support as you can, you can support yourself on your social circle, loved ones, God, or the hope for a better future for you and those close to you, I also believe you need more than one generation to make that change, a change in culture is a difficult thing for anyone, nobody wants his customs to change, so the help of those who follow in your steps is a big plus, as the final goal is for them to be rid of the bad thing afflicting your family. And as a warning for finding yourself saying things others have said before now that you are on their shoes, be careful what you say to kids, they DO repeat everything they hear, and the only way to stop it is to stop saying it, don't stop saying it if you truly believe it tho, only stop if you think is harmful to your family.
One thing I would add is calling teenagers children, nowadays there is no change for the routine of the young ones as they progress through the education system, and the change from an education organization, where they are required to say as the teacher says, to a labor organization, where they are required to produce, is a big change and the multiple relations in a job (employer/employee, employee/client or employer/employer) signifies a different growth from the teacher/student relationship most students have, in a job you HAVE to move out of your comfort zone, you HAVE to do things you might not like, you HAVE to MOVE. Maybe with calling teenagers children some people ended up calling grown adults children and some actually believe they are children. I don't think this will fix the manly-less problem of today, but I think it could be a start. And the addictions plaguing this era are just horrible, really hard for the young ones and is difficult to spot for the older ones, for psychological tricks (as fomo) are used often, really nasty stuff.
Good podcast and safe drive.
sumsur
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