npub1vqmh8edfflrlcf4ly39cdeqg7lqg6wrphew6mk52zp23wmyzywsslgccpx (npub1vqm…ccpx) the dynamic reminds me of that around an addicted family member.
Ignoring all of the signs until something so egregious happens that it can't be papered over.
Followed by not changing anything because change is hard.