As a father of a daughter I find this a very compelling topic. I want very badly for her to grow up in a world where everybody respects everybody, and I will fight for her in that regard unceasingly, but I believe that the actual, total, global attainment of this to be a delusion of the modern age, the best we can hope for is to attain this within our local communities, certainly not in the world wide web. So perhaps consider this private node model for a similar effect?
When interacting with the wider world, modesty is a completely reasonable solution if you are apprehensive of the consequences. You cannot lay bait in the wild and subsequently be surprised at the arrival of a predator. Not all people are Human, too many are closer to animals.
Do not go to sea without navigational aids... do not go to the northern forests without protection from bears.
This is Earth, not Heaven. We must temper our expectations and act accordingly.
I do agree with your suggestions around 2-way mutes if it is possible, although a good point is made about silent observers, you might not even know they are there but this relay specific posting developed by jb55 (npub1xts…kk5s) looks like it will be very helpful to your cause.
I wish you the utmost best in your struggles truely 🙏🏼
YunusAtSea⚡️🐧🌊
npub1ec…7h6up
2024-04-16 07:25:20
in reply to nevent1q…g00l
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2024-04-16 07:25:20Event JSON
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