prox on Nostr: So if the guy had bought you the toasted coconut coffee instead of talking about it, ...

So if the guy had bought you the toasted coconut coffee instead of talking about it, he would have seemed less of a weirdo?
Over here guys sometimes try to buy women drinks but it is often seen as a bad thing too. Women here want to be financially equal to men and want to buy their own drinks. I have found it's easier just starting conversations about innocent subjects and see where it leads. If there is chemistry, great. If not, at least you didn't sound like a creep. Tho I do understand it may be odd if someone starts talking about a coffee three times, maybe he is just hoping the conversation would develop to other topics aswell