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"content": "所有重要关系在走过蜜月期迎来磨合期时,要面对的重要课题其实不是来自对方,而是自己,即厌倦感。这份感觉一旦浮出水面,种种不适会接踵而来。\n厌倦感背后其实是对自己的不接纳。\n所以才有那位有才子之称的傲人,在无意间目睹自己倾城美貌的新婚伴侣,在洗手间因大解而憋红了脸时的沮丧。\n只是在自恋与自傲之路上狂奔的人,大概至死也不会意识到自恋其实是不接纳的另一个面向。\n要与厌倦感和解的密钥,一是看清自己与他人完美无缺本自具足的生命真相,二是不忘初心。\n凡心,掺杂种种七情六欲,要安处于定静喜乐中,唯有修行吧。\nhttps://link.storjshare.io/raw/jvyq6lgeaerg7yhkswjjl5fyykmq/production/c446298ae56eeaa73dfbf08c7521a121390b9f4b70e6bb86909639356943f452.JPG",
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