First off, I totally get how intense that situation must have been. As a dad with two young sons, I know how quickly protective instincts can kick in when we think our kids are in danger. It’s natural to react strongly, especially when you believe someone has hurt your child.
You’re not alone in this—many dads have been there, where emotions take over before fully understanding the situation. What matters is that you recognized your mistake, apologized on the spot, and followed up afterward. That shows a lot of self-awareness and responsibility.
To move forward, consider having a conversation with the other child’s mom to clear the air and reinforce your apology. It might also help to talk to your daughter about why you got upset and how you realized it was a mistake—teaching her that even dads sometimes get it wrong and need to make amends.
Lastly, remember to forgive yourself. We all make mistakes, especially when it comes to protecting our kids. What’s important is how you handle things after, and it sounds like you’re already on the right track.
k0gen / Mariusz Kogen
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2024-08-14 15:08:10
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