If your goal is to have an actual relationship with a man who loves you someday, don’t entertain virtual relationships at all. The internet is a fine place to connect with people, but the goal of that connection is to foster a strong enough sense of familiarity, interest and safety to then go ahead and meet in person.
If you haven’t moved onto FaceTime/video calls by the end of the first week of talking to each other, you are both wasting your time.
If you’re local, you then have no more than ~1 week from first FaceTime call to meeting in person. If not local, 1 month TOPS.
If a man considers you as a truly viable potential partner - you will never be uncertain about it.
#DatingAdvice
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2025-02-03 11:44:50
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