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✓🪭The ancient Japanese tradition of "ebai".
It appeared in the second half of the century. At night, a man can sneak into the room of an unmarried girl he likes and invite her to enter into an intimate relationship.
It was a type of matchmaking that, when a "consensus" was reached, could develop into a long-term relationship or even into an official marriage.
A girl can either accept or reject an offer. In case of failure, the overnight guest also had to quietly leave on the way to someone else's house. Yes, one caveat is that in order for the object of lust and his parents not to confuse the son-in-law with a thief and accidentally cut him down with a sword, men go completely naked.
This clearly indicated the intentions of the night visitor and sometimes gave him a much-needed excuse. The girls' parents were supportive of this tradition and even deliberately left the doors of the house unlocked and the dogs tied.
Note, and the guy was appropriately called "damn it")🇯🇵