Sully on Nostr: Firstly if this is not about you, it's not about you, but for the rest of you — the ...

Firstly if this is not about you, it's not about you, but for the rest of you — the eggnog would like a word…

I see you. A lot of you. Guys. Gals. You're in shitty relationships. The more people I get to know, the more I see it. You cling to them because they're familiar. And I get it, on some level you care (perhaps a lot), but you're being drained and losing at life.

Christmas is peak fiat relationship season. Some of you have deluded yourself into believing you'll move on in the New Year… spoiler alert, you will not.

If you're good, and many of you are, you deserve better. Heck, maybe both of you are sweet peaches, but for some reason you're just not good together. Life is not as long as you think it is and your partner is instrumental to your success, fulfillment and happiness.

So, if your relationship is great, I'm ecstatic for you. However, if you're hoping mighty Zeus will drop a bolt of lightning and somehow fix it, he won't.

Don't be lazy. Don't be a coward. It's meant to be hard, it's meant to be jarring. The opportunity for a healthy relationship is worth it.

At all times, design your life with intention.

Merry Christmas 🎅🏻🥃





Also, you don't need the apps either. Literally just go talk to someone, the world is starving for authentic interaction. Be normal, it'll be easy 👍🏻