pippellia on Nostr: I have to decide on how to handle this edge case in the rely framework I am building: ...

I have to decide on how to handle this edge case in the rely framework I am building:

1. a client sends a REQ
2. a client sends an EVENT that matches the REQ

Should I return the event or not? The following is a screenshot of a khatru relay, that returns the event.
#asknostr

I think there is a real world pattern in support of returning it: a lot of people follow themselves to have feedback on whether their posts were successfully stored on the relay.