the agaric system on Nostr: i wish i knew how to systemadmin and like, generally knew stuff about how linux (and ...

i wish i knew how to systemadmin and like, generally knew stuff about how linux (and all computers) worked, but everywhere i go i get a different answer. first i got “oh try hosting akkoma” then i got “try hosting nextcloud” then i asked someone who hosted nextcloud and they were like “don’t do that try hosting ngnix” and i don’t know what to do or where to go. half of the time when i ask someone where they learned what i wanted to learn they go “when i had a question i wanted answered i looked it up” and then when i say “but i don’t know what questions i need to ask” they have no answers for me and i’m stuck back on square one and i’m ***really fucking tired*** of being on square one.