k. on Nostr: so give me your required spec. like: which kinds you want accept? what features do ...

so give me your required spec.

like: which kinds you want accept? what features do you need? do you want blossom or nip-86? which methods?

then ill develop one for you.

fyi: https://github.com/dezh-tech/alienos is also a lightweight relay which don't need any extra services and its 100% manageable using nip86!