Fucked up that many of the same people who think sexual pleasure is traumatic for kids also think that physical pain (like spanking) isn’t.
Yes… the nice feelings are abuse but the bad feelings, the ones that say “do what I say or I’ll hurt you” are not.
You can be against both, but being against sexual abuse and not physical abuse is senseless. Hurting someone into submission is abuse—and also lazy parenting skills.
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