I dunno, I think you're making too many assumptions. Do you know she is capable of managing money better than her husband? Maybe he really is protecting her. If their collective income improved a lot, how do you know the husband wouldn't spoil her? I mean, after 13 years, I'm pretty sure they have some kind of understanding that goes beyond male domination = bad.
If you know he is controlling and abusive then fine, but this generalisation is not the best of arguments. It's really no better than a politician pushing for laws "to protect ud" for all the same reasons.
Care to imagine what would happen when the husband finds money on her phone?
I understand your POV is from a good place but just too many assumptions about cultural differences, wanting a round peg to fit into a square hole.
/ Carlos
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2024-07-08 12:54:51
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