npub1sre0wuqsrck68ycschkt47u55wg9rht0akadhtavjp3kjpkuysdsgamny9 (npub1sre…mny9) npub18ljjwuh8vt0lrh3fe3vsefddt40u297gtsk3d4v4ywhjnvms9zfqy480hq (npub18lj…80hq) Gender's obviously a big part of this, but I think class and imperial culture comes into it.
Like, if you're not allowed to ask for things, then you try, passive aggressively, to create situations in which other people feel morally obligated to anticipate your desires. That obviously doesn't work if your social status is low. On the other hand if your status is high enough, your personal desires can blend into hegemonic norms.
FoolishOwl /
npub10q…2gu2w
2024-03-02 17:54:57
in reply to nevent1q…qa3c
Author Public Key
npub10qmm0765mkrra6au99l25eva9weznhtesj8ts7qk3hhqygqc25hqp2gu2wPublished at
2024-03-02 17:54:57Event JSON
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