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What are some tricks to prevent people from being in my “universe”?
Basically I would like to live my life without input from the minds of random people I am forced to interact with due to work or shopping or just existing in public places, driving, etc.
I live in east Asia as a European so that brings a lot of attention due to my looks however I can pretend not to speak the local language, I can act mute or speak Spanish in order to make people believe they can’t communicate with me, also when riding my motorcycle I can just use the sun visor so nobody knows Im a foreigner. Also wearing a mask lowers the amount of attention I get, it also hides my facial gestures so people can’t read my emotions.
The problem is at work I am forced to be very close to coworkers and bosses, and I can’t just claim to have autism or some other fake condition because it might get me fired. Whats some condition I can claim to have or some personality I can act that will keep people away from me in all senses, without offending them or making them feel like I dislike them?
I don’t mean just keeping them from being physically around me or talking to me, I also mean keeping them from talking about me when I’m not present or thinking about me, obviously I can’t control them 100% but I would like to minimize their influence in my life as much as possible.
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