You bring up some good points, while I find some joy in the tit for tat method i have 2 issues with it.
- i want to be the better person and hold myself to a higher standard
- if i did the tit for tat method, we'd actually never get together with anyone likely. - i value my friends and once we are visiting all is good - getting to the visit is the painful frustrating part.
but
I guess what i'm thinking is this is more of a societal problem - where people don't value friendships like they use too probably due to many reasons like
- the system we live in is high time preference
- people work too much
- social media and netflix
while curating friends can help fix this to a degree maybe...... in my experience it seems rather hopeless as people rather relationships that are via text and superficial.
maybe because people are mentally drained from their stressful lives?
anyhow, i guess maybe what im wondering is - is this common where your at?
Freedom First Bitcoiner
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2024-08-21 22:20:57
in reply to nevent1q…cjdu
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