npub1sre0wuqsrck68ycschkt47u55wg9rht0akadhtavjp3kjpkuysdsgamny9 (npub1sre…mny9) npub18ljjwuh8vt0lrh3fe3vsefddt40u297gtsk3d4v4ywhjnvms9zfqy480hq (npub18lj…80hq) I feel like I grew up in some distorted version of "guess culture" where my parents would give me orders disguised as requests, and it would anger them if I said "No". Fearing for my safety was not a valid reason to say "No", because they were adults and knew better -- except they frequently didn't.
It's still hard to deny a request, or ask anything of my partner. She's amused on the rare occasions I ask her to bring me a glass of water or something like that.
FoolishOwl /
npub10q…2gu2w
2024-03-02 17:17:28
in reply to nevent1q…nzjr
Author Public Key
npub10qmm0765mkrra6au99l25eva9weznhtesj8ts7qk3hhqygqc25hqp2gu2wPublished at
2024-03-02 17:17:28Event JSON
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