Lady Mae - Life Coach on Nostr: it is refreshing to see it as a super power and reframing it in a positive way. ...
it is refreshing to see it as a super power and reframing it in a positive way. Whilst it is good to view it this way; what I have learned dealing with it is it can lead to excessive self-criticism and self-doubt because you want to achieve the perfect outcome or control the outcome. In an ideal world, we strive to make it perfect. But often, perfection leads to anxiety and self resentment if the outcome we want is not met. I'd say it is ok to minimise errors and win quality work but not to the expense of your mental wellbeing in the long-term. ❤️✌️☺️
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