Not possible.
The easiest option for running a relay where you can control who has access to read from it and write to it is relay.tools by cloud fodder and 121 others (nprofile…wt7d) , and it's still a bit involved to get it set up correctly.
Even then, if you don't want your notes to naturally propagate to other relays when users interact with them, you will need to have fiatjaf (nprofile…wjy3) 's new lockbox option enabled, which I highly doubt cloud fodder has implemented as an option for his relays, yet.
The next easiest option would probably be cody (nprofile…5u3k) 's Nostr Relay Tray, but you still need to have the know-how to expose the port that is running on and set up a reverse-proxy to make it accessible through a domain that you own.
Dikaios1517
npub1ku…v3lhe
2025-02-10 20:06:30
in reply to nevent1q…xphs
Author Public Key
npub1kun5628raxpm7usdkj62z2337hr77f3ryrg9cf0vjpyf4jvk9r9smv3lhePublished at
2025-02-10 20:06:30Event JSON
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